Showing posts with label Fat. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Fat. Show all posts

Sunday, June 26, 2011

"You're Fat"

Something happened to me on Friday night that I just cannot shake from my head. I went out & was having a great time with friends...and as we got up to leave from the bar, I walked past this guy who had the audacity to whisper to me, "You're fat."

Not wanting to be juvenile & get sucked into his immature games, I acted like I hadn't even heard him and just walked away. However, I later told my friend how pissed off I was about it.

Listen...I'm not denying that I'm a bigger girl currently. It's something I'm well aware of & working on fixing. For some asshole (excuse my language) to explicity tell me I'm FAT just seems so beyond immature & wrong...I don't even know where to start. That is something that elementary school kids tease children about when they're still too young to understand how hurtful it could be. This is a COLLEGE STUDENT who obviously should know right from wrong at this point in his life.

I'm very happy with my life right now. I have a great job, good friends, a supportive family. I'm consistenly doing things that make me smile. But this guy really just pissed me off. Not in the "I wanna kick his butt" kinda way. In the way that I can't believe someone would be so immature.

I feel like if anybody is going to understand how I truly feel...it would be ya'll. It's not like this kid is going to make me develop an eating disorder because of what he said. It's just...annoying, if anything.

Anybody else ever have something like this happen to them?? How did you deal with the feelings of anger towards someone so...childish??

xoxo